Monday, February 2, 2015

2 Practical Budgeting Tips To Manage Your Money Better


This is a really good blog post from the folks over at Christian Personal Finance, please take a read and see what you can take away from it. I think there is some very valuable information for those striving to more conscientious of their spending/budgeting!

I’ve been a long-time fan of the Crown Financial Ministriesmonthly income and expenses budgeting form which is organized by categories and subcategories. Dave Ramsey has a similar planning form.
No matter which one you choose, you’ll find they both are solid tools in helping you consider all the monthly expenses you might encounter.
Organizing a budget using these forms also helps you budget every dollar and ensures your budget is in balance (income equaling expenses).
Budgeting by category is a proven method that works well. You can also layer envelope budgeting on top of it which turns each category into an envelope funded each month with your planned amount. You know the envelope budgeting process, so I won’t bore you with further details.
All this being said, do you think planning by category and envelope budgeting techniques are sufficient to proactively managing your money each month? Are you better off if you can layer on yet another technique or two to help you manage your money, as long as you don’t over complicate matters? Let me offer you a couple of other practical tips.

1Budget With Three Main Budget Categories

I’ve recently reviewed our budget and reorganized it. The traditional categories have helped us stay on track with our spending plan each month because we’ve captured all of our expenses and use envelope budgeting. However, we now group all expenses into three main categories.
Here are the categories:
  • Giving and Saving
  • Bills
  • Other Expenses
For example, there is no longer a housing category that contains the following: yard maintenance (fertilizer, etc.), electric, water, mortgage, etc. The bills such as mortgage, electric and water are grouped under Bills. Yard maintenance is in the other expenses spending group.
Why does this work? Each month we budget Giving and Saving andBills per paycheck. This is the easy part of budgeting. These are set amounts we know we can’t deviate from or we’re going to be in trouble.
The hard part is figuring out how we’re going to budget the remaining Other Expenses. These are all the expenses that we know we could encounter during the month and we have a long list of them based on past experience. We review the list and decide how we’re going to use our remaining money after we’ve given, saved, and paid the bills. Sometimes those are tough decisions as what we once felt were important expenses are sacrificed so that we only spend the money we have available to us and remaining in our budget.

2Budget By Time

There is yet another way you can organize your budget that is helpful. When you create a monthly budget you’re budgeting by time. You decide how much money you can spend for the given month.
But you can take this one step further.
You can do as I described above with the three categories, grouping your budgeting by Giving and SavingBills, and Other Expenses. Of the remaining Other Expenses you then decide how much you’re going to spend each week.
For example, you might decide you have $500 available for the family food budget. You can then divide this $500 by week so you manage approximately $125 per week. Overall, you should have a weekly budget which you may find to not be as overwhelming as a monthly budget with a larger balance which can be more tempting to spend. If you’re married, you may also find it stimulates more conversation between you and your spouse because you’re both working to stay on track of the weekly goal. After the week is over you can take a few minutes to review your plan for the next week.
You Need a BudgetHopefully, these budgeting techniques will help you manage your money better each month and ensure you don’t overspend. I’ve used a couple of good money management software programs that help make this job easier. Both Mvelopes and YNAB (You Need a Budget) are great products to use. My wife and I currently use YNAB which makes it easy for us to decide how we’re going to spend money after Giving and Saving and Bills each paycheck. We can then hold each other accountable to our spending goals.
What do you think about these budgeting techniques? Leave a comment!

Blog originally found at ChristianPF.com 

Monday, January 26, 2015

8 Things Jesus Never Said

Jesus said a lot of things throughout the Bible, but there are also a lot of things he didn’t. Here are eight things Jesus never said. January's first blog post is a Guest post from Jarrid Wilson from over at ChurchLeaders.com, he is a husband, pastor and author relentlessly sharing the love of Jesus. Read more from him at JarridWilson.com


1. “No shirt, no shoes, no service.”

Jesus never gave prerequisites for encountering his love. Regardless of your past, the love of Christ is available for anyone who is willing to accept it. Nobody is too flawed for forgiveness and eternal salvation.


2. “Follow me, and I will bring you fame and fortune.”


Jesus never promises fame or fortune, yet these are also not things he opposes if used for his glory. If your reasoning for seeking a relationship with God is materially focused, you may want to evaluate what god you’re really yearning for.


3. “Everything will go according to your plans.”

Many of us pray to Jesus thinking that everything we ask of Him is going to be answered in our timing. The reality is that not all prayers will be answered, but that Jesus does have the power to fulfill any prayer that is asked of him. He’s that BIG! Just because a prayer isn’t answered in your timing does not mean your prayer has been ignored. God hears all, knows all and knows what’s best for each of us as individuals. Take a step back and trust in God, his timing and his will.

4. “I will bless you if you pray hard enough.”

The blessing of prayer is in prayer itself. Communication and dialogue between our heavenly father and us is more fulfilling than anything else we can ask for. Jesus isn’t a magic genie, and if your prayers seem more like wishes than heart-felt conversations, you may want to re-think how your foundation of faith is being built.

5. “Life is going to be without rough patches.”

So many people think that just because they believe in Jesus means everything is going to be flawless and perfect. This really isn’t the case at all. You may have a relationship with Jesus, but this doesn’t mean life is going to stop moving forward, tough circumstances are going to cease to exist, and rough times will never be a possibility. Even though Jesus never said life would be easy, he did say he would be there for you in your times of need. The message of The Gospel isn’t that life will be perfect, but that in its imperfection we have a perfect and flawless Savior.

6. “I will answer prayers on your time.”

Although God is faithful in his answering of prayer, we cannot expect him to answer every prayer to our exact measurements. Faith is trusting God even when things don’t make sense, and that includes a prayer that we feel may be unanswered or at the wrong time. Faith is trusting in God’s timing, not ours.

7. “You’re too far gone to be saved.”

Nobody is too far traveled from having a relationship with God. No matter where life has brought you, you always have the opportunity to look next to you and see the open arms of Jesus. The forgiveness and love that He offers is not something we can run from, nor become too dirty to accept.

8. “You deserve to have nice things.” 

Jesus never said you deserve a huge house, nice car, big paycheck and a sweet job. In fact, everything in the Gospel points to simplicity rather than luxury. This isn’t to say that you’re not allowed to have nice things but that Jesus didn’t promise you are going to be given them. God’s plan for each of our lives is different, and we need to understand that not everyone is going to make the same amount of money, drive the same types of cars or even live in the same type of housing.

What we need to understand is that Jesus did say we need to love our neighbors, help those who are in need, and that the widow and homeless deserve to be loved as Christ loved the church.You don’t deserve to have nice things, but you do get to experience the love of Christ, and that is worth more than anything this world can offer. 

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Monday, December 8, 2014

Things Bigger Than Us...

Have you ever had one of those times where you realized you were so caught up in your own "life" or "agenda" that you completely missed out on what God had in store for you?  I've had a handful of things on my mind lately that I've wanted to Blog about. I'm going to try and incorporate two of those ideas into this one blog today.

Children have been on my mind heavily the last week or so, children being mistreated, and I don't mean not getting enough attention or a parent missing a birthday party, but I'm talking about horrible and unforgivable atrocities against children. Stories I've read lately include one child who was tied up to a stake in the ground with a collar around his neck outside in the cold and watching his parents beat his pet dog to death and another story coming out of Scotland, where a 5 year old child from Botswana literally had his heart ripped out of his chest while was still alive for some sort of a "ritual sacrifice." 


I'll post links to the stories below if you don't believe me. It is absolute horror. I can't begin to fathom what goes through the minds of people, to hurt and even kill a child. These stories make me think of my own 4 year old son, it brings me to tears to think of something like this happening to him. For those of you who are parents you'll know what I mean when I say I would do anything I possibly could to keep my children from having to experience pain. There is no part of me that ever would want my children to suffer. What in the world is wrong with people that would do these kinds of things to children? 


Only thing I can come back to is that there is an absence of true love, the "Agape" love that our Father in heaven has for us.  John 3:16 is one of the most famous and well-known Bible verses. It has been called the "Gospel in a nutshell" because it is considered a summary of the central doctrines of Christianity. The verb translated "loved" in this verse is ἠγάπησεν (ēgapēsen), past tense of "agapaō".
"For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life."

—John 3:16, KJV

Agape received a broader usage under later Christian writers as the word that specifically denoted "Christian" love or "charity" (1 Corinthians 13:1–8), or even God himself (1 John 4:8, ὁ θεὸς ἀγάπη ἐστίν, "God is Love").

The term agape was used by the early Christians to refer to the self-sacrificing love of God for humanity, which they were committed to reciprocating and practicing towards God and among one another. When 1 John 4:8 says "God is love," the Greek New Testament uses the word agape to describe God's love.

A self sacrificing love, a love that knows that there are thing more important than our selves, things bigger than "us." Children are to be loved, my son's memory verse for this month is, "Jesus said, 'let the little children come to me' - Matthew 19:14 (in his voice he says Maffew, but I know what he means). The stories mentioned above just ripped my heart out at the cruelty these two children had been shown vs. what they really deserved. 


On another level I felt God speak to me about children, we are all God's children, not just kids, but adults as well. I had a man come by the church today, down and out, homeless at the moment, trying to piece his life back together. Just before Thanksgiving we had done some things to help him and try and get him back on his feet. He's still trying, has a job, but just lost his spot in a shelter he'd been staying in. I didn't really have the ability to help him from our "benevolence" account again this month. He asked if I could at least get him some food, I told him I was sure I could manage that. 

Now, this all came at a bad time for me in my day, I was on an important phone call when he came in to the church and I had an appointment I was trying to make at 12:30, so I was rushing a bit with this guy. I told him, ok let's go and I'll take you to get some food (in my mind, I'd decided that I 'd take him to get lunch at a buffet somewhere, drop him off, pay for it and still have time to make it to my appointment). So we go outside and load is bike, bag of clothes, backpack, tent, and machete (yes a machete) into my Tahoe and I take him to Western Sizzlin, as I'm going through the line with him (ready to hurry up and pay so I can go), I had a real check in my spirit, "Are you too good to sit down and have lunch with this man? My child?" Yeah, at that moment I felt like a dirt bag, nobody in his situation should have to eat alone, I was about to miss an opportunity to do something bigger than myself, I could encourage this guy, pray with him, maybe make a difference. At least show him that someone, somewhere cared.

Turns out he's trying to get enough money to be able to take care of his wife who is in a nursing home, the right half of her body is paralyzed and they don't really have any other family to help them out. We had a good lunch, he said that his steak was a little too pink, but the fried chicken was good, he was extremely grateful, said that he never gets to eat in nice places like Western Sizzlin. He "snuck" a few cookies into his jacket to take to his wife, and I dropped him, his bike and all his gear (yes the machete too) off at the nursing home so he could spend some time with his wife before going into work, to try and do his best to take care of his family.


There are things in our life every day that are "Bigger Than Us," don't get too busy and miss out on opportunities God puts in front of you. You have the ability to have a great influence on people around you and make a difference in this world, which is full of people that don't know what true Agape love is, you can show it to them. That Self Sacrificing Love that knows no bounds, and is willing to not just give out of abundance but out of need as well.

"Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me."
- Matthew 25:40

Thursday, November 13, 2014

Amazing, Miraculous, there aren't really enough words...

Sorry, this is totally not a spiritual post today at all, but I saw a video with a story this week that totally blew my mind! A young man at a college has a chance to win $10,000 by making a layup, a free-throw, a three pointer, and a mid-court shot all in 30 seconds. Basketball is my favorite sport and this video really takes the cake...The video is below, but before you watch it, read the story because it makes the video so much better!

Gustavo Angel Tamayo had never played basketball in his life before he was in the arena when Tennessee’s Bryan College tipped off their college season Monday night with their annual rally, “The Late Night Roar.” But Tamayo made history by winning an extremely challenging shooting contest and the $10,000 tuition prize.

Bryan College’s contest is difficult. Participants have to hit a layup, free throw, three-pointer and half-court shot in 30 seconds. Oh, and they have to get their own rebounds.

By way of BroBible, comes the story of Tamayo’s incredible night. We’ll let twentytwowords.com explain the senior’s backstory and why Monday night was even more unreal:

The senior gained asylum in England at the age of 6 and grew up there before moving to the U.S. for school. Soccer has always been his favorite sport and he hopes to continue playing professionally after his tenure as the college’s center midfielder is over.

But inexperience on the hardwood didn’t deter Tamayo, nor did the broken finger on his left hand from a soccer injury. The student stepped up and delivered this incredible performance…


Tamayo almost seems to have missed the three-pointer, but he gets a nice bounce. All that’s left after sinking a layup and free throw in a single attempt is the simple half-court shot with the clock ticking down…



Simply astounding! The fact Gustavo had never played ball before and had a broken left hand (he’s right-handed, but still) simply adds to the myth. We miss college.

Could you hit 4 shots in 30 seconds?

Originally found on Dime Magazine.

Thursday, November 6, 2014

#TBT: Should You Volunteer In Your Church?

This is a ThrowBackThursday blog post, and you can find this blog in its entirety at the link after this introduction...We are busy with work, family, life, hobbies, side jobs, and needing an occasional rest in between...so why in the world would we or should we even consider devoting more of our time to anything? ...like volunteering in our local church...

Faith without works is dead...the harvest is plentiful but the laborers are few...go into all the world...what you've done to the least of these...

These are just a few phrases from some powerful Bible verses concerning service. I ask the question, 

"Should You Volunteer in Your Church?"
Please Read the Rest of this blog HERE

Monday, November 3, 2014

There is Always Hope...

"Rather, the LORD's delight is in those who honor him, those who put their hope in his unfailing love."
- Psalm 147:11
In light of much discussion going around right now concerning suicide and assisted suicide (i.e. Robin Williams and Brittany Maynard) I thought I would share an awesome story of someone facing horrible odds...impending doom, pain and death...yet chose to fight, have faith and allow God to work a couple of miracles. There is always HOPE!


"Heather Knies was given a death sentence at the age of 24. She battled not one, but two brain tumors -- one of them a grade 4 glioblastoma, the same kind of cancer that killed Sen. Edward Kennedy in 2010.
But today, six years later, she is cancer-free, and her doctors at the Barrow Neurological Institute in Arizona cannot explain it. Her latest MRI is clean, and she is neurologically intact.
The now-32-year-old Knies has not only outlived her life expectancy, she has married and become a mother. Her successful parenthood is remarkable, as intense radiation and chemotherapy can render cancer patients infertile.
Knies's daughter, Zoe, who is 7 months old, celebrated her first Christmas in December.
Knies's doctors say that in rare instances, a patient can break the "biological rules." But most often in those cases, the initial pathology of the tumor was suspect.
In her case, the pathology was "not controversial," according to her surgeon, Dr. Robert Spetzler, director of the Barrow Neurological Institute at Joseph's Hospital and Medical Center in Phoenix.
In his 35 years as a neurosurgeon in the United States, Spetzler said he has never seen such a triumph against a stage 4 glioblastoma.
"It's one of the most malignant tumors there is," he said. "Invariably it will come back and pop up somewhere else in the brain and it's uniformly fatal."
"It's not unheard of that that a few survive -- it's a bell curve and there are outliers," he said. "But in her case, not only has she survived, but she is perfectly normal and there is absolutely no evidence of a tumor on her MRI scan."
Knies has a few of her own theories for why she is still alive today.
"One, being God had a plan for me," said Knies. "I also had a great team of doctors and wonderful family and friends with a positive attitude."
"The mind is so much more powerful than anyone can imagine," she said. "People believe that when they get cancer, it will kill them. But I never once thought that."
Spetzler said Knies was "on the young side" for a glioblastoma, but it can occur at any age, "even in infants."
It all began in 2005, when Knies had the first symptom that something was wrong. She had just started a new job as a receptionist at a doctor's office and was driving home from work.
"Suddenly, I didn't understand what the dashed white line meant in the road," said Knies. "I had been driving since I was 15, so I started panicking and called my Mom. She asked, 'Did you take something?'"
Knies could see, but couldn't understand what she was seeing.
"I was only 24 and I was having visual problems," she said. "I can't even describe them."
Her boss, a dermatologist, insisted she see a specialist, and an MRI showed a low-grade tumor that was pressing on the visual reception cord in her brain.
"I had just moved to Phoenix from Missouri. I was just out of college and felt like I had the whole world waiting there for me," said Knies, ever the optimist. "Looking back, it probably grounded me a bit."
She underwent surgery at another institution, and she enrolled in a drug trial for an oral chemotherapy at Duke University, repeating MRIs every three months.
She says doctors told her to, "Go live your life."
But in less than a year one of the scans showed the white flairs of tumor growth.
It turned out the new tumor was aggressive -- a stage 4 glioblastoma and it was sitting on the right side, touching three parts of her brain: the temporal, parietal and occipital lobes.
The lower-grade tumor had turned into a more aggressive one, which is not unusual in a glioblastoma, according to Spetzler, who took over her treatment in 2007.
"I opted not to have the entire tumor removed or my left side would have been paralyzed -- so I asked Dr. Spetzler to debulk it. I didn't want quantity, I wanted quality," she said.
When her mother was brave enough to ask how long she would have to live, one of the doctors said about six months.
"For whatever reason, because of being an athlete or just being mad, I wanted to defy him and the medical world and show that no one is a statistic," Knies said. "I was immediately defiant. I never once thought it would be the death of me."
The tumor caused massive headaches and vomiting from the pain, and on Friday, April 13, 2007, she went into surgery. "Friday the 13th will never scare me again," she said.
Surgery was followed by heavy doses of chemotherapy and radiation. Knies will be monitored with MRIs for the rest of her life, but for now, her brain shows no sign of residual cancer.
"I would not feel comfortable calling it a cure," said Spetzler. "But there is no evidence of a tumor as you would expect with someone who has lived much longer than expected. There is a hole where the tumor was. Her survival is remarkable."
At her cancer diagnosis, her boyfriend at the time had "freaked out," according to Knies. "It makes you very insecure when someone tells you up front they can't handle it -- bye-bye."
But in 2010, she met Joe Knies, now 54, an engineer who was 22 years her senior.
"It didn't even faze him, and it blew me away," she said. "He made a good point -- we can all die in a car crash tomorrow."
They married in October while Knies was still undergoing chemotherapy one week each month. She had always wanted children and was warned the aggressive treatments could have damaged her eggs.
"It was almost as scary for me as hearing about the cancer," she said.
On her oncologist's advice, Knies decided to undergo in vitro fertilization with a surrogate because of the unknowns associated with cancer and pregnancy.
"I prayed hard," she said. "After egg retrieval there were only two follicles and the rest were empty."
In the three days they took to mature, only one was viable. "We had that one, and she is my daughter," said Knies.
"My husband had never been married before or had kids and his parents thought they would never see the day, so it was a miracle to his mother that he now has a child," she said.
"Every morning I wake up and thank God that I can feel my 10 fingers and toes and have a loving daughter and husband," said Knies. "There have been so many miracles. One after another, as my dad said, so many angels must be sitting on my shoulders."
One thing I find particularly amazing about this story, if she had just given up, her amazing little girl would have never existed...the choices we make yesterday, today, and tomorrow have a huge impact on the world around us. There is always HOPE!

This story was originally reported by ABC News HERE